Quote from the guy who runs the Chewjitsu channel: “a lot of time we get so fascinated by the extremes.” Which is true for me, and I often plan my path at such an extreme level that it just won’t work. Then it breaks.
Then I recalibrate.
Then it works.
If I didn’t tilt at windmills I wouldn’t tilt at anything. And if I often have to climb down to tilting at haystacks, that’s ok. I’m still in the saddle.